"beating Cheating" - Is It For You?

I posted a full reviewe of Beating Cheating at TheSignsOfCheating.com, but I wanted to give a brief summary here.

When I went through the problems with my husband and his rampant infidelity, I suspected something was wrong for a long time. The hushed wispers, the lack of attentiveness followed by an overabundance of feigned attentiveness and gifts, yadda yadda.

One thing I learned was that you have to trust your gut instincts. They are not wrong! I tried to tell myself for nearly three years that it was all in my imagination, that I was making up the vacant eyes, the emotional distance, etc. I did everything I could to try to make our marriage better, but it's like he had checked out. Sure, there were times when he seemed engaged with me or the kids, but it wasn't like when we were first married.

I chalked that up to having been married for a while, and to the stress that comes with adding children to a home.

What I should have done is listened to my instincts. The problem was, I had no proof. I would half-heartedly try to find some kind of evidence that would be conclusive, but there was none. He was too good at hiding his affairs.

The worst part of this, for me, was the uncertainty. The not knowing if he was or he wasn't. It was literally killing me!

Fortunately, a friend recommended a book to me that changed my life. I had read a lot of books before about cheating spouses, how to catch them, how to sample dna evidence (uh, yuck!), and more. But there were not helpful.

This one was different. Called Beating Cheating, it promised just what I was looking for: a way to find out FOR SURE if he was cheating or not, and to find out within 48 hours!

Having nothing to lose, and knowing I could get a refund within 8 weeks if it didn't work, I purchased the book online, downloaded it immediately, and got to work.

And it worked like a charm. By the following afternoon, I had all the evidence I needed. It was not easy, coming to the conclusion that the husband I once loved dearly had betrayed me and our marriage vows, but at least I knew for sure.

If you are in the same situation I was in, I urge you to check out that book. It enabled me to regain control of my life, which I came to realize had been sadly lacking for much of my marriage. I am now on to a more healthy relationship, the kids are adjusting, and my ex-husband's most recent girlfriend dumped him because he was cheating on her!

I created a website to help others. Check out this video about the signs of cheating and how you can start to identify them: