April 4, 2008

Practical Parenting Advice: Using Music To Help Your Baby

Music is an excellent way for you to calm and soothe your baby, especially during the first year. How many times have your heard parents say that it was impossible to do anything with their crying, fussing baby until they tried music. This is because music does indeed soothe the savage beast, or in this case, the baby.

There are particular distinct sounds that have been shown to calm even fussy babies: the sounds of nature, white noise, and music. Even if your baby isn’t fussing or crying you may find it helpful to use music regularly to encourage that feeling of calm and peacefulness. All it takes is a few minutes every day and before you know it your baby will be looking forward to hearing that certain song emanating from the CD player.

There is nothing mysterious or complicated about introducing your baby to music from day one. You don’t need to search for the perfect song or a particular type of music. All you have to do is start by having your baby listen to your favorite songs and music. If classical is at the top of your list, let your baby listen to the sounds of Andrea Bocelli or other favorites
as he sits in his baby seat watching you in the kitchen.

It doesn’t matter if you like the schmaltzy songs of the eighties or some wicked African beat, your baby is going to listen and his mood is going to be influenced by any musical sound that he hears.

Besides the music that you yourself can introduce your baby to, there are hundreds of CDs available that are filled with baby songs and lullabies. At bedtime you may want to play a CD of quiet baby songs that have a slower beat. There are so many CDs for you to choose from that you will have a hard time making up your mind. Pick something that interests you. Many baby CDs may have faster beat music and lullabies on the same disc.

Playing music has other benefits besides soothing a fussy, crying baby. Such benefits include:
• Music enhances your baby’s behavior and cognitive skills.
• Relieves stress for the whole family.
• Will stimulate curiosity and an interest in music.

Take time to find a variety of music for your baby to listen to. You’ll soon notice which music your baby is most drawn to and can use that music when he is crying or being particularly fussy.