Parenting How To: How to Builda Child’s Self Esteem

It's often been said that children learn what they live. So if you're looking for a place to start encouraging your daughter or son build positive self esteem and self value, then you should show them your confident sense of self and strong self esteem. Be positive when you speak about yourself and focus on your strengths. This will demonstrate to your child that it's alright to be proud of their talents and accomplishments.

Your daughter or son will benefit greatly from true and positive praise. Find something about them to applaud each day. You could even give your daughter or son a chore you know they are capable of completing and then compliment themfor a job well done after they're finished. Show your daughter or son that positive acts merit positive praise.

If your daughter or son is feeling unhappy, exasperated or depressed, talk openly, honestly and patiently with them. Listen to what they have to say without judging or criticizing. They may not really be aware of why they are feeling the way they do, so the opportunity to discuss with you about it is likely to be what's needed to help them make sense out of a difficult situation. Suggest positive ways and options as solutions, and make sure to keep that door of communication open so they know whenever they feel badly, they feel able to you for help and know that you won't judge or punish them for how they're feeling.

Show your daughter or son the importance of setting goals and generating a plan of action to achieve that goal and finish that task. Small ventures are the ideal way to start off with in the beginning. Make sure that it's an appropriate task for your child, and not too complicated. Don't only offer praise at the conclusion of the project, but praise their accomplishments during the project as well.

Most importantly, tell your daughter or son "I love you" each day - many times throughout the day, is even better.

When they've been badly behaved, just remind yourself that it's not your son or daughter you disapprove of, only their behavior. Place short, kind notes in their lunch boxes or jacket pockets. Very soon, they'll be able to say "I love you" just as easily and truthfully in return.

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